Thursday, February 12, 2009

Really?

In the times where BIG government has reached an all time high, once again we are shown the true colors of the Left.You see, single moms have been the bleeding heart banner of the Left. Over and over we get to hear heroic tales of single moms raising incredible children(think the road to the White House), yet the woman who is emulating Angelina Jolie in looks, and Mrs. Duggar in motherhood, receives NO MERCY.

Heaven forbid she set up a website asking for help. Folks if she were pregnant(naturally) I would say the same thing-this didn't happen by herself. She had a licensed, trained physician implant the embryos. Hmm...the silence is DEAFENING.

I think that every church in the nation should send her homemade quilts, baby clothes, food, and on and on and on. HOW DARE all the baby suppliers discriminate against her because her doctor was playing god, but ill prepared to do so. In our presidential position(messiah like Obama) we have the same case. I mean the good doctor just listened and OBEYED to the great man of HOPE and CHANGE.

Let me make this very clear, I am not for this IVF nonsense where so many are implanted. I absolutely believe that the mother is at risk for carrying so many, as are the babies because of the increased chance in prematurity, and other health issues. Just for the record I had one baby in 1995 that was 10 weeks premature. I would have loved the internet access that we now have. I would have set up a site asking for prayer, and even gas coupons because Bill and I had to rotate who would drive the 225 miles to the hospital that I was life flighted to(Fourth spent nearly 10 weeks in the hospital the first time). Our other children were 6, 3, and 2. It was incredibly difficult to experience all the emotional activities that occur to a preemie. Bill and I had the ordeal of being asked to authorize surgery for her...without anesthesia, as the surgeon told us she could die from the anesthesia. I cannot imagine having to deal with this times eight.

SHE IS SINGLE. We have embraced woman's rights in this nation. We have given a woman the ultimate authority in deciding whether the fetus in her lives or dies. SO THE NEGATIVE ATTITUDE PERPETUATED BY THE MEDIA NEEDS TO STOP. This mother just choose something that you on the Left believe a woman of sound mind would not choose. She choose to be a mother, and have a large family. That is the reality of this whole argument that is being continued.

I say YOU NEED TO STOP...If you do not wish for a woman to have this incredible power to cease or permit life then we can have a civil conversation. But ALL I HEAR IS YOUR DOUBLE STANDARD.

I KNOW THAT THE DOUBLE STANDARD IS SOMETHING THAT WE HAVE HAD TO DEAL WITH FROM THE LEFT...NO MORE.

If you have any clothing from your children or babies that you no longer use, wash it up, pack it up and send it her way. In these times(MSM) words, if you are fortunate enough to have some extra money, offer to pay a utility bill for a few months. You get the idea- let us recapture our nation. This is her blog.

Oh and the doctor playing god? Why are we keeping him protected?



BTW- if she aborted the 8...we would have never known about it- BECAUSE THIS WOULD HAVE CAUSED NO STIR...AS IT IS HER RIGHT.
Jennifer

7 comments:

RightKlik said...

As usual the media are protesting for all the wrong reasons. Nice article. I've been avoiding this story because the reaction has been so hysterical and the media have been such annoying hypocrites. They are so very selective in their belief in personal responsibility. Your post is the most rational commentary on this story I've seen so far.

Pen of Jen said...

Rightklik- Thanks I was avoiding it too, until I thought about all the love other multiple families received. Then I decided to post.
Jen

motherofmany said...

Holy Toledo is right! Great minds think alike (though it more like aggitated believers have the same gripes about the culture without even knowing it!).

Very good idea about sending whatever we can. I wrote about our silence speaking volumes in my emailed opinion to worldview network. We'll see if they post anything about this story or not.

Pat said...

I have had mixed emotions about this saga. One---she lives in a two bedroom house with six children and three adults....and now her children and parents are exploited because of her choices! She left her parents to answer all the questions!!! Also, why would she publically lie about assistance she gets?(like noone could find this out???? And, what is the difference---she only angered people by the dishonesty!!) Three....she has some mental issues, as she had "plastic surgery" two weeks before she deliverd (as reported by those living near her) .....She wanted fame, and now has it, and now it has turned sour. You see, some people who have been denied welfare/gov't. assistance are really upset!! I am guessing the barren women who have tried to have children but have been unable to conceive or afford IVF treatments are sad and angered! Guess also that some of the working class believe they are having enough of a hard time providing for their families without government assistance-

There is no way on earth one woman can care for 14 children---three already disabled---and the mom is cashing in on the talk show circuit making money while her parents are still caring for the SIX children and reporters and answering the questions she should be answering!! Where is the truth in all this??? She also says she wants to work...................did she not realize she is a Mom to 14 and nes to care for her children???

Also, there are questions how a woman who cannot work becasue of back problems and got a huge settlement because of it, can carry fourteen children and there not be a hinderance or complication by or to her health!!
Certainly her ex-employer must feel taken by her claims!!

I realize the Duggars can well take care of their family, and can provide for them without government assistance, and I am sure others viewing both these families would concur!! They also are Christians. However, I am sure that when they got their own tv show, they opened themselves up to public scrutinty! In a public arena, all seems open access!

I believe two things: God is sovereign....he ordains life!
It is not for others to dictate family size-or if a baby should live or die!

To those who are His children, He provides for our needs. However, I believe we must be busy at helping ourselves, too!!

One last thought--she has never mentioned God in all this!! She truly must seek Him to be able to carry on!! Hope can come from Him alone! May she find the source of joy and peace and comfort she seeks -Christ alone!

Pen of Jen said...

MOM-interesting if they do?

Pat-first off, I am only addressing the double standard of the Left. I have no problem excepting that a mother can love 14 children. I understand that she has disabled children, and again in times where we throw away the imperfect ones(and others) I am impressed.

I am extremely upset the the medical facility has not been publicized nor have they been scrutinized.

You are correct, I have not heard if she is a Christian, but I am not exclusive in my suggesting that someone deserve fair and equal judgment. Kate(of jon and kate plus 8) was young also yet they implanted 6, you see the arguments are not sound.

Perhaps the doctor was trying out a baby mill of sorts, as adopting newborns is highly rewarding financially. I am of course not sure, as the media is AGAINST HER.

Hey we all cannot be likable, so do we dislike her personality and her stupidity? Because make no mistake about this SHE could no more have implanted those babies than you and I. We must seek the truth getting around the nonsense of a immature woman who fantasizes about motherhood.

You and I both know that motherhood encompasses both hardship and joy, and I am not sure that she gets this.
btw- she did not pay for this SO WHO DID???

Many times we choose to get upset at someone because we dislike them. That is what is happening. Whoever paid for this is the root of the problem.

I hope that you understand that my post was about the standards set.

You are so correct that she needs a Saviour. May we pray that she receives Him.
jen

HUP said...

Good post. I think the reason the media is being so hard on her is because "we" are being forced to pay for her choices in the help she gets from the government. They don't want to pay for her bad choices and of course she should not have been "allowed" to do this to us! They want us to sanction the further restriction of freedom. Hers to choose how may children she will have and ours to have any right to say how our money is spent. And they are partially right, we should not be forced to pay for her and her children's welfare. But, the real problem here is not the mom or her choices, it is our government that takes our money from us, steals it actually, and gives it to others. It does not matter the reason, my money, your money, is being stolen from us and given to others against our will as the government sees fit. Now, I believe in helping those who need it, but let me chose who to give my money to and let me be the one to give it as I am so inclined. And if this mom can pay for this herself, let her have as many as she can. Let her ask for all the help she can. But call a spade a spade. It's the system that is skewed here more so than a women who wants a bunch of kids. And taking away more of our rights to choose is not going to help anyone.
HUP
http://wisconsinpreppersnetwork.blogspot.com/

Saved Sinner said...

You are right. Even though most single mothers are in that situation through choices we don't agree with, if we do not support them then we are encouraging abortion. If this lady had selectively reduced, no doubt we would never have heard about it. I hadn't really thought about the double standard that it is acceptable to be a single mother as long as you don't have "too many" and as long as it was the natural way but IVF is acceptable otherwise.